If you are a
hard core lover at your heart, my suggestion is that you should love God and
not any human being. It may sound strange, but this is of course the best possible
way to get maximum happiness and minimize your worry.
May it be a
child, a youngster, a woman or an old man; every human being seeks love. He
wants to love and expects a lot more love in return. Not only human being, but
animals and even plants too, seek love. You start petting an animal; it would
expect love from you. You slowly put your hand beneath the neck of a cow; it
will slowly tilt up its head, to allow you to continue the process. And in case
of a plant, you put water to a plant and take care of
it regularly; it will grow after some days. Is this not it's way of showing love?
Okay, leave
the animal and plant case and let straight come to love or affection of human
beings. In the first case, suppose you are a youth. You fell in love with a girl.
Your love elevated and now you are passionate about her. There are many
probabilities here. First, the girl may not love you in return, for which you’ll
be frustrated. Suppose she loves you, her parents may not like or accept you.
Even her brother or ex-boy friend may try to teach you a lesson. Okay, let us
take that all her family members and other people of the society accept the
relationship. Still you will have to remain far from her, when she would go
either to her college or job. Take that if you also study with her or you are a
colleague of her, still you can’t get her 24*7. Because, she will have to sleep
for some long hours in a day and would also need to execute her daily routine.
But think
here. You started loving Lord Krishna. None of His parents will limit you. None
of His friends or lovers (devotees) will become a hindrance on your way to love
Him. Moreover, He is omnipresent and omnipotent. Hence, you think of Him
anytime anywhere and He will be right before you if you are such a dedicated
devotee. Even if you don’t think yourself a dedicated devotee, you can take in
the pleasure of thinking about Him anywhere anytime and nobody is going to
check you.
If you are a
kid and love your mother and vice verse, still both of you cannot stay together
throughout the day to share your happiness with each other or to share your
feeling of love to each other. Because the mother needs to go either to her job
or if she is a house maker, she will have to give time to her household
affairs.
But on the other
hand, if you started to think always about Durga Maa (Goddess Durga), she always will be with
you. Your biological mother may not provide you protection, suggestion, benefit
or wealth. But if Durga Maa blesses you, she can fill your life with success, love
and wealth anytime anywhere you need.
If you are a
father, your son will remain with you only for a few hours in a day. Because
you need to go to your job and he needs to go to his school, then you will be
away from your son for long hours in a day. Even, if your
biological parents have already passed away, still you can reap the benefit by
loving Gods. Your deceased parent may not be in a position to help you out, but
God always is there.
Jay Mata Di….
